Most
of us are so busy we don't take the time anymore to just sit down
with anyone and have a real one on one meaningful conversation.
Even when our kids are grown we tend to spend
little time with them other than sending text on our phones which
are short and cryptic at best. They seem to be to busy even while
on the phone to have their complete attention on a conversation
while talking with them. We see this as a a real issue that is not
good for us as a society, nor as individuals.
Texting has a complete lack of being able
to pass on our feelings which are picked up during a real conversation.
Even a phone call when one of the people in the conversation is
not paying 100% attention to the other person on the line does not
pick up the inflections of the other persons voice that tells way
more about the conversation than the simple words being spoken.
The Internet kind of started this off by
creating the situation in chat rooms of the past. I remember very
well the beginnings of my own first chat sessions and people spent
a lot more time typing to get an idea or conversation across a lot
like actually writing letters on paper used to be done. In this
way we were able to communicate in a much more meaningful way.
As
time progressed, there were a ton of short cryptic notations typed
in that actually created a whole new library of terms to learn but
served it's purpose in shortening the amount of time a person had
to spend typing out what they wanted to say. Not that it was a bad
thing, but it started even back then taking away the personal communication
aspect of a chat conversation. It wasn't long before chat sessions
lost their charm and people just pretty much stopped going to chat
rooms to have meaningful conversations with others on the Internet.
The lions share of my own early days in the
chat rooms was spent learning about code and physical aspects of
computers and computer hardware. I had no other formal training
in this area but was able to use this online self education to land
a great job for a time in my life.
I smile today when I see the same cryptic
notations being used during texting along with even newer ones introduced
as phones have progressed. The sad thing is I have even experienced
the complete misunderstanding of even complete sentences in a texting
conversation that nearly ended in a bad feelings incident with my
own daughter. It took me a lot to get her to understand that what
I had texted was not meant in the way that it was taken.
This is where I realized just how important
it is to hold a real conversation and take the time to clearly express
ones feelings during the conversations so no mistakes or misinterpretations
are made.
Email at least from my standpoint still holds
about the same amount of information passed along as a real letter
written on paper. It of course has been abused to a great extent
as well. That said, people are doing a lot more email communication
on their phones now too. As a business person, doing email on the
phone is not an option. Most of my emails require the transfer of
usable image documents and data that has be be put on the computer.
It is either not an option to transfer from a phone, or is just
simply not convenient to do yet.
I
guess my point in all of this is just how important it is to set
aside time with people in a face to face conversation and just talk.
Be
there at 100% and don't have something else to do at that time.
We need to regain our ability to communicate with each other and
have fun doing it. Not all conversations need to be sober and dire,
in fact it should be a point in holding a conversation to make it
about more things that you can smile about.
What
in the world does this have to do with LINK COMMISSIONS™ and
our program?
Absolutely
everything! We can share our new found way of making extra money
with our friends and family and even invite them to do the same.
Why would you want them to do this, wouldn't that just take away
your own link building efforts? Considering that there are over
320 million people in the USA, I think that even if you told everyone
around you locally about the LINK COMMISSIONS™ program there
would still be so many opportunities to share links with others
that all of your friends together would not make a dent in your
own link sharing efforts.
This is in fact a strange way to build a
business, or just an extra cash generating endeavor, but when you
look at the whole picture, it always comes back around and each
of us is rewarded in ways we cannot even predict. I personally have
many stories I plan to share in this sites newsletter that will
bring inspiration and enjoyment to our subscribers.
Don't
hesitate to contact me personally and hold a conversation. I love
to share and I never fail to get something back in return when having
a conversation as my feelings are that we all are part of the world
we live in and it's always exciting to hear stories from others. |